By rchubn , June 15, in Relationship Advice. I made this account because I'm desperate for some advice. Recently my boyfriend let me use his laptop because he has a Photoshop subscription. I started unloading my photos and found something that was absolutely gut punching. He had old photos of him and his ex nude, the time stamp of when the photo was taken was about 3 years ago but it says he viewed it 2 months ago.
Teacher, 42, 'sent nude pictures of his ex-girlfriend to her brother'
She Found Photos and Videos of Her Boyfriend's Exes on Her Boyfriend's Phone - Slog - The Stranger
So I used it like I would use my own. I clicked through the Explorer and came across his dissertation amid old college work folders. Ah, here we…oh, holy shit? In every other context it would be funny—here were images of overflowing breasts, pink and hairless vulva; a writhing torso flanked by bathtubs, messy beds and silk. Emailed photos.
The Unwritten Rules When It Comes to Your Ex's Nudes
Yeah and that's the thing I have no problem with him looking at porn sometimes, but by looking at pictures of somebody you have had sex with before who hangs out with our group of friends, it seriously makes me so uncomfortable having them around each other. He says I don't have any right to tell him who he can and can't hang out with, he's making me feel like I'm a crazy girlfriend. No, he's out of line.
Where do they go? And should you care if your ex still has your nudes? The answers are mixed. For some, like Cindy Gallop—founder of Make Love Not Porn, a NSFW video site dedicated to correcting porn-based myths about sex —keeping nudes from past lovers is a way to reminisce about good times from her past.